I've met and trained with some very good people in my area (Phoenix) and there is a pretty diverse FMA community here... but it's very much and "underground" thing. The general public doesn't even have a clue about FMA, and it's really tough trying to build up a group. In fact, it seems like it's easier to get people to do almost any other art first. Guys I know teach Karate, Kung-fu, Jiu-Jutsu, MMA... and are lucky if a small percent want to train FMA. Well, I'd understand that if these guys did FMA as a sideline themselves... but often FMA is their greatist passion, and they still have a hard time promoting it.
From my experience it is hard to get people's head wrapped around the idea that they will be training with weapons before learning empty hand or in conjunction with empty hand. Instead generally everyone is used to the idea of empty hand arts i.e. Karate, TKD, Chinese Martial Arts, Judo, BJJ etc. etc. I mean the general public everyone knows someone who has kids training in one of the above arts, or they have trained as a child or in college in one of the above arts, or they have seen the MMA fights etc. etc.
We have a hard time promoting it (I'm in the same boat) because teaching what is known or popular is what keeps the bills paid. But I would love to grow my FMA clases.
Now I'm in the same boat. I run a little Wing Chun class, but I'm really looking to build my own Escrima group. Yet at the moment, the WC is doing OK while my FMA student count is almost zero. Even my own FMA instructor, 30 miles away on the other side of town, doesn't have many students. And he's very good. Good enough for me to make the 60 mile round trip every Saturday to keep training. And even the headman of our system primarily trains MMA fighters these days.
Driving long distances to find a good FMA instructor is common because they are so few compared to other more well known arts. while it can be easier to find someone teaching it as an add on art, but teaching it as a primary system that is a different story. Two of my students drove all over the metroplex trying to find someone who would teach Modern Arnis (specifically) or the FMAs.
Funny short story break. These two students moved a couple of miles away from my old house (we moved 6 months ago), they had read my posts on MT and tried to PM me but my mail box was always full, they spent a year or so driving everywhere looking for an Modern Arnis instructor. I walk into the TKD school that they were attending to talk with the head instructor and one of the instructors pointed me out to them and they freaked. Been my students ever since.
I've tried YMCA classes, added Escrima to my Kung-Fu website, posted Craigslist adds and there's no response. Right now I'd take on a really dedicated training partner for free! Can't figure it out. I do shower. Brush my teeth too. Just must be "charismatically challenged" I guess. What does it take to get people to swing a stick at you these days? Any thoughts? Or are things different where you are?
You need to get some good students who can be your cheer leaders for you. It is hard to get things going when it is just you. Like I said these two students of mine were looking for a Modern Arnis instructor and they helped me to start promoting my classes both my TKD and the Arnis classes at the Rec. center where I teach. For a time they were my only students in arnis, then I got another cross over my my TKD class and then another married couple and now the class has started to grow. I picked up a couple of others to where I now have about 5-6 steady interested students. This is a good size for the room we have and it is enough that we can change partners several times during class.
While I love teaching all of my students (my younger TKD students included) I really need to work with the adults in the Arnis. Not only is it keeping my skills up but it has really helped me to grow as a FMA student/instructor over the past year. Looking at the movements in the Modern Arnis class helps me also teach the kids in my TKD class.
However I take a different approach to promoting the art. While I do mention the self defense angle I also promote the art within your art angle, or what I call compound learning angle of the FMAs (Modern Arnis in particular). Since I teach double stick, single stick, and empty hand; and unlike some FMAs very little knife work at the Rec. Center because I have parents of potential TKD students show up and look in on class and if I'm teaching this killer knife work it gives them the wrong idea. Anyway I draw the distinction of how the system that I teach the double stick techniques apply to empty hand techniques and you get a lot more reps (muscle memory) doing flow drills (sinawali drills) than marching up and won the isle doing the TKD. And then I invite them in to do a simple drill, and in a few minutes then show them a simple translation to the empty hand techniques and explain that all of these techniques are inter related and by learning double stick you are also learning single stick and empty hand techniques all at the same time. And the main thing it is fun.
My FMA students are all pretty much middle age adults, four of them are two married couples and the women excel at the double stick drills, while the men do better with the blocking and striking (combative type drills). While self defense is important to keep them training and really working on the art they need to see something more than just self defense. So they see the FMAs as an art they can grow into, constantly learning new skills and seeing the connections in the movements between the weapons and empty hand etc. etc. They are not into beating the hell out of each other, cause everyone has to get up and go to work the next day, they don't want the hands wacked so hard they can't use the fingers, they don't look at the black eyes as badges of honor. Now I have some other TKD instructors looking into training as well, with them I try and educate them on how this techniques relates to their TKD technique, or this can relate to boxing etc. etc. This is a different way to do this lock, or this take down, or how to do the knife hand block.
What I don't stress is how Modern Arnis (or the FMAs) is the supreme art above all else, nor that it is better than my TKD, rather it is different.