lmao - hey, don't worry! Most of the people on this forum are men I think, anyways. I'm glad I could blend in.There goes me and my assumptions again. I guess that's the evil white patriarchy acting through me again (sorry, postmodernism is in the other thread, I know).
I like the work or the perspectives that Luria took, and Vygotsky took. They aren't perfect (I don't think any one theory can be perfect), but they are quite interesting. Luria published a little book - I have to go search for the title. Very fascinating, cross-cultural look at cognitive differences in people based on local education and culture. Maybe it sounds boring, but I thought it was a lovely look at how the local environment affects cognitice development - even into adulthood.
I must admit I don't know every name you've mentioned, but now my curiosity is piqued and I must go look for them!
I think maybe Thelen and Smith as well as De Waal, with evolutionary theory thrown in by E. Lloyd, would be good people I would highly recommend.