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Matt Stone said:I guess I meant my comment in a more generic way...
Some folks avoid contact like the plague. I attribute the loss of most beginning students in Yili to a fear of contact. We don't start out smacking the beginners around (much), but they watch the more senior students duking it out and turn and run...
What I meant was, in the opinion of folks in this thread, how important is "free" sparring, and to what degree does heavy contact impact sparring?
I understand what your question is a bit better now.
Yes unfortunaly a number of people want to see the "cool" stuff and when they do they may get frightened off so to speak.
An example would be a training partner of mine and I when to a seminar and were avidly following directions of the instructor and so on. When it came time to work the technique and drill we did so as though we normally do. (NOTE: My partner and I have been training together for 4 years so we have learned how each other moves and generally have the same understanding of motion and being the body.)
At first we decided to work with other students and found that some...minor contact "touching your target without penetration i.e slap on the back" was an almost foriegn concept to them. This did make it difficult to learn and work the ideas being presented. We also both ran into some that lacked self-control and an understanding of equal reaction, meaning I can hit you as hard as I can but dont dare touch me! When my partner and I returned to working with each other many were "frightened" to work with either of us again due to the "level" we were working on.
To avoid the fear factor I think you need to show what you are working on in the "attention" state meaning slow and methodical to students but whomever your body is you may want to explain to those watching what your training relationship is.
My instructor when using me for a body will always say that we have been working out for a number of years and have built a level of trust and understanding and that is why he can hit me as "hard" as it seems (Kenpoists understand that). I have never been hurt yet, had my bell rung a few tho!
So we lay the foundation of building block and that going from "attention state" to "intention state" to "Aliveness" (Matt Thornton's conceptual idea I believe ~ have not seen anything really on it yet but get the gist of it)
Takes time and practice and yes the occasional bruise will happen. Kinda educating students about getting hit.
Sorry for the lenght. :asian:
David Gunzburg