Agree with this. Miscommunications happen all the time online, because so much of our actual communication takes place through non-verbal indicators like tone of voice, facial expression, even timing of the response. These all can be lost online, especially across very different time zones. Many readers found something in Tez's reply she didn't intend. It's been beat to death, I think...Let it go.
Your posts came across as dismissive. No one is being "over sensitive." Just accept that what you wrote didn't read, to several people, as you had intended it to. It happens all the time. Just accept it and say, "OK, sorry. Wasn't my intention." Then let it go.