Brother John
Senior Master
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UPDATE:
My kids are having a BLAST!!!
They're both yellow belts now and are gearing up toward their first shiai!! I LOVE seeing them in their Gi and working so hard! Makes a Budoka father proud. My son's fighting spirit is really being cultivated too. In the beginning he expressed that he doesn't like to "Compete" against others. (in anything, foot races, arm wrestling...etc.) But I thought this was because he wasn't that physical of a guy... pretty slight of build and just below average height, and therefore wasn't all that 'athletic' yet. I was very concerned when we started because MOST of the kids in his age range (He's 9 now) are not only slightly bigger, but are all higher ranked / more experienced ....and he tends to not win his matches in Randori. I was very concerned that this would get him down, but Sensei does a VERY good job of talking to him about his fighting spirit and how he's so proud of his effort because even when he's IN a pin he never gives up the struggle. I've seen my son LOSE with a GOOD attitude. He's set his sights on beating a kid who is about the same age, but a green belt. David (my son) said: "If I can beat him, then I'll know I'm getting somewhere." ..and Sensei's correct! David never gives up. I'm very proud of him!
My daughter, LeighAnn, is doing very well too. Her fighting spirit is sheer JOY. She does have a problem not going all through Randori with a beaming smile though. We try to get her to have a stern look to her when she goes in.....but trying to get a smile off my girl's face is like trying to strip paint off a car with your fingernails....It's hard, and it looks so much better with it in place! (somethin feels wrong about trying to get a smile OFF my child's face anyway) She just REALLY enjoys Randori. She's much more physical than her brother. Still smallish in height, she's built like a bull dozer though. NOT fat, but very compact! If you were too try to pick her up you'd be surprised she weighs that much! Her aggression is VERY ready for Shiai!!! Now we just need to broaden her repertoire of moves. That comes with time and good instruction I'm sure.
Now....there's an issue that befall's the Judo Club that I'm going to bring to everyone's attention and seek your advice and input....
thanks
Your Brother
John