first off i take offense to your suggestions that my former masters should mean nothing to me if my rank is higher then thiers in another style. I will always respect them and their thoughts for what they have given me. My training is somthing they gave me that can not be taken away. I feel sorry for you current teacher if this is how you feel!
This is from a tkd website
Benefits of Tae Kwon Do
Tae Kwon Do students earn numerous benefits from the study of the martial arts. They learn how to increase their physical and mental fitness, and improve their balance and coordination. Students also learn patience and respect towards others and, most importantly, toward themselves.
In the truest sense, this martial arts is not about learning how to fight and defend oneself. As martial artists, we encourage self-discipline and try to instill in our students admirable human qualities that will help them in every aspect of their lives. Ultimately, Tae Kwon Do is about living, not fighting.
The five most important lessons to be learned in Tae Kwon Do are Courtesy, Integrity, Perseverance, Self-Control, and Indomitable Spirit. If students practice these five tenets, they will become good role models and will always set an example for others to follow. In addition, they will exemplify the true philosophy of Tae Kwon Do, which is to become an honorable human being with perfect character and physical condition.
Tkd is not a fighting art. It is an art that mimics fighting. But I repete but there is nothing wrong with that. Tkd people have jumping and tuning skills I could never have. They train hard. They should be respected for that.
My dad can beat up my dad was used as what is called a metaphor. If you are as young as you sound I am sorry for expexting you to be able to think a certian way.