Itâs an attitude I donât care to counter. I find them generally unfriendly (with some notable exceptions). There was another site I used to spend time on that was the same way - often jumping to assume the worst motives behind things they didnât like, rather than bothering to wonder if it really mattered or was actually causing harm. Often honest questions are met with confrontation and accusation. They can keep that crappiness.The attitude is hard to counter without the correct tools.