I have to agree with hoshin. We test everything. In the various waza situations we will just go with the flow but we test each other with every technique in general training.
If it makes it any better for you. I visited the Aikikai hombu in NY a few years back and witnessed the worst example of what you are talking about. Stuff that would literally get you killed in a real fight.
Well, I am Aikikai. But, my school actually isn't that bad; my instructor, and the people I train with are fairly pragmatic. Still, I do have trouble with some premises; for example, uke remaining in contact and holding on to grabs. This may be a result of my prior training, and not something that is natural, but when I'm grabbing to strike, my natural instinct is to let go immediately if the limb I'm controlling starts to deviate from the centerline, or take my balance. I'm definitely not committed to any grab or controlling hand that I use; it's just there as a very momentary device to clear the way for an attack. When I first started training Aikido, I would let go as uke unconsciously, just out of habit, and really had to consciously "correct" that impulse to let go.
Now, will the average guy in the street do that? I don't really know. People who haven't trained martial arts do tend to be quite tense and committed to their actions, so I think it's definitely plausible that some, or many of them will hold on in some, if not most situations. But I think it's a good idea to train to encourage or ensure uke retains his connection, and also to train to sense and respond to "fill the gap" if uke does let go rather than relying solely on the premise that he will always maintain contact of his own will. Otherwise, if you have it set in your mind that uke will act a certain way, and one day he doesn't, and you've never experienced that before...
On a different note, I got to experience a lot of different Aikido recently. I went to a seminar with instructors from all kinds of different schools and organizations, and it was really good. One of them happened to be a very pragmatic fellow who had trained boxing, karate, and a number of other arts, and touched on some pretty good aspects of training realistically.
Argus, that is because that is how it is taught in the beginning. Static. Technique focus, etc. As you progress, the movements become more dynamic, more flowing, with little thought to technique, but rather, using whatever uke gives you. When we do randori exercizes, you really see this. The nidan test I saw this past weekend showed this. 4 people attacking, and nage has no idea what attack will come. He had to show control of his space, ability to harmonize with whatever attack comes and a variety of techniques.
It just takes time. (I suck at randori and jiyu waza, but getting better slowly)
I've actually done a very little bit of randori and jiyuu waza, and I find it easier, personally! Or, at least it would be, if my technique were a little more squared away. But, it's easier for me to respond intuitively with something that suits the situation, rather than going through the motions of a very static drill where I'm trying to make a particular technique work when something might be slightly off - like the distance, timing, or angle of attack that my partner is feeding. In jiyuu waza, I can respond appropriately -- or, uh, at least attempt to given my level of training. In regular practice, I just have to "make it work." And, like I said, that's something I've come across in every martial art I've practiced, regardless of the school or quality of instruction. It's the artificial aspect of training in a very controlled manner that presents the most challenge to me.
What's that saying? "
Perfect practice makes perfect."
At my dojo, we provide little if any resistance for a long time. As you progress in time and rank, the resistance increases to the point where you have to nail the technique against a fair amount of resistance.
For example, we were working on an ai hanmi katatedori ikkyo the other day. My uke kept varying the speed of his grab, and if I didn't start and meet him early, he would shove my arm down and say "too late"...must have heard "too late" a dozen times, but once I relaxed and began my movement earlier, at the first sign of his intent to grab, I had no troubles.
That's a good way to train!
Some of the senior students will do that with me on occasion, if my timing or something is obviously off, and will offer varying levels of resistance on occasion, which I find helpful to ensure that my structure is sound and that my body is moving as a whole so that I'm not just muscling through the technique.
Perhaps the most valuable thing I'm learning in aikido is just that -- moving the body as a whole. Most of the time that a technique doesn't work for me against resistance is because I'm leaving one part of my body behind, or moving another part too early. I'm kind of bad about that, but slowly learning
The greatest thing about aikido is that it is SO, SO subtle and nuanced, and all about feeling and perception and harmony. That's why I take it. Although, I think it will likely take a lifetime to learn, and I don't know that anyone ever really "masters" it.
Yep. I guess that's kind of my attraction to Wing Chun as well. At the end of the day, I really enjoy exploring (and gradually ingraining) all of those subtle nuances, and examining the art in depth. My Aikido still has a ways to go before I can focus much on that, though