hardheadjarhead
Senior Master
shesulsa said:Well, y'all gotta know I'd have something to say about this. (Takes deep breath)
Bravo, Shesulsa.
Did ya'll catch that? The woman knows of what she speaks.
Regards,
Steve
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shesulsa said:Well, y'all gotta know I'd have something to say about this. (Takes deep breath)
Bent over backwards for the kid? By removing his support? Oh, PLEASE tell me how this can be true. And if I was this kid's parent and the school removed all of his special needs support WHICH HE IS ENTITLED TO BY LAW, BY THE WAY, you bet your hoo-hah I wouldn't like the school's decision.rmcrobertson said:The more I'm reading, the more I'm tilting towards the notion that the parents are a big chunk of the problem. Some of the details seem to indicate that the school has bent over backwards for this kid--and the parents just don't like the decisions, and aren't terribly respectful of the other kids and parents. Particularly, what's the claptrap about home schooling, but bringing the kid to recess "for his socialization?" This strikes me as something that can ONLY cause problems...kids take long enough to accept newcomers anyway, and a weird kid who just gets dropped off to play with them...not gonna work.
Steve, :asian:. Thank you.hardheadjarhead said:Bravo, Shesulsa.
Did ya'll catch that? The woman knows of what she speaks.
Regards,
Steve
He wasn't mainstreamed in the first place and they tried to place him in a regular classroom without support. You obviously don't know how this works, so...please let me educate you. Mainstreaming a special needs child requires first, for it to be a viable solution for the child - this child was successful within a special education environment which includes the kind of support he needs such as a picture schedule, social stories, sensory motivators and secondary reinforcers. These cannot be used consistently in a regular elementary classroom without at least a full-time aid and consultation. When you remove these supports from a child with a disorder that requires absolute predictability and assistance, plopping him down at a desk in a regular classroom just won't fit the bill. Incidentally, plopping him down at a desk in a regular classroom IS removing his support system.rmcrobertson said:OK, it's on.
They didn't remove his support--they first tried to put him in a regular classroom, which is the whole point of mainstreaming.
Too bad for you it sounds goofy - like I said before, come up with another way for this kid to interact with normal kids so he can emulate normal behavior, and I'll consider you as a serious challenger.rmcrobertson said:Second, when the parents insisted on homeschooling, the school STILL went with what sounds goofy to me--if I read you right, bringing him in for recess alone.
Excuse me? THEY WANTED TO PLACE HIM IN A REGULAR CLASS WHEN HE HAS SPECIAL NEEDS - THAT IS REFUSING SERVICE - GAWD!! Any proof beyond that would require submitting his confidential record to you which I cannot and would never do anyway.rmcrobertson said:You've shown no evidence that the school refused to help this kid
Glad you think so.rmcrobertson said:--only that there's a problem, and that (as I originally posted) BOTH parties tried to do the best they possibly could with it.
Yah - one of them being this kid. He qualifies and is legally entitled to what he was already receiving. If you want to follow our legal detention system and purge the lesser-need kids from the special education system as they purge lesser-crime offenders from jail and prison, run for your local school board.rmcrobertson said:But schools only have so much money, and so many resources (as I originally posted) and they have other kids, too, to help.
Not all aspergers patients manifest behavior in the same way - that is one of the most frustrating and confounding things about the autism spectrum disorders. But many of them do, yes. Actually, most "normal" children find out how to interact with each other through trial and error and most children will hit, kick, swear at, punch, bite, shove or otherwise harm other children while going through the learning process. But these kids are developmentally delayed, so they will take much longer to progress from these stages and they often revisit old behaviors under periods of stress and flux. It's also much easier to send up a red flag about violent behavior in a child who is different than a child who is not obviously affected. Most kids are allowed to work this out over time and exposure - but...not this kid.rmcrobertson said:So, maybe a) help me out here: IS there evidence that Asperger's kids turn violent like this?
See my notation above about refusing services.rmcrobertson said:b) detail how the school failed to try to support the kid, because I've seen no sign of that as yet;
Please, do you think I live with them? That's like me asking you to explain who was on the playground that day.rmcrobertson said:c) explain just what sort of homeschooling the parents did (how do we know it's not THEIR fault?),
I am suggesting that the school return this boy to the program he was already in - you know - the one that was working??? Special education situation with pull-out specialists, partial and supervised inclusion and Asperger-specific support.rmcrobertson said:d) explain what you'd suggest the school should do...unless, of course, it's whatever the parents tell them to do.
This would be a good topic for another thread - but I can give you a few suggestions right now, if you insist. Cap administrative salary raises like they cap teacher salaries. When a teacher has been found unfit to teach, fire them instead of shuffling them into an administrative position created just so that they have something to do (it happens in my school district according to very reliable sources). More money is spent in legal fees fighting to deny services to children in need than is spent ON children in need. There's more, but let's save it for another thread.rmcrobertson said:I'd also be interested in knowing precisely how you expect each and every public school to find the money for each and every special needs kid, without taking it away from some other kid's education.
Well, that's getting personal and unnecessary. I admit I do tend to be passionate about these kinds of topics - perhaps because others are so passionate about apathy and ignorance.rmcrobertson said:And if you're gonna jump down my throat, well, try this one on: maybe having to work so hard to take care of and raise a child with similar issues is just a little corrosive of one's objectivity with regard to other cases.
Again, see the above about removing his support system.rmcrobertson said:If the school let the kid down, of course the parents should scream. You haven't explained how that's true.
How do you know it wasn't? The assessment process is, again, part of confidential records and you, as a teacher, would know that. What was the reason for the school's attempt? Don't know - why don't you ask the school?rmcrobertson said:2. How do you know that the "special needs," class was in fact working? What assessment process was used to put him there in the first place? What was the reason for the school's attempting to "mainstream," him?
Given that most districts will hire "specialists" based on their having taken a specialized class or two and having a pulse (this coming from a specialist inside the school system), and since the parents of special needs kids have to be highly educated in therapies for their kids' challenges as well as the nuances of the disorders, it was most likely at least as good.rmcrobertson said:3. If they homeschooled, what sort of support--or special training--did the parents bring to bear? Was it as good as the school offered?
Why don't you go to www.autism.org and find out for yourself?rmcrobertson said:4. What precisely is the scientific/clinical support for the notion that bringing the kid into recess only would be of value?
That means that you as a teacher are just as unqualified to make the same assessments as I, the mother, sister, wife and daughter of people on the spectrum.rmcrobertson said:If you have no answers to these questions, then really, your assessment isn't any better than mine. It certainly wouldn't entitle you to claim special knowledge on account of your background, any more than I'd be entitled to say that because I've been a teacher for quite some time and I don't belive that you have, you have no idea of what issues are involved.
Yes it is. It is even more expensive to care for these people as adults because they did not receive early intervention services. Now, would you, my liberal friend (I'm one too, relax), rather spend $100,000 on early interventions for a child or $50,000 per year on full-time caregivers for them once they become adults? Easy math, in my opinion.rmcrobertson said:It is terrifically expensive for schools to provide every kid with the education they are absolutely, unequivocally entitled to.
Again, this topic is not to discuss sources of funding - we all know the government spends funds in ways we would all like to see change. I'm not indicating that these are the only things that need to be changed in order to fund this, that's why I said there are many things that would have to be changed...please see my specific language in my prior post.rmcrobertson said:And no, chopping administrator raises and dumping idiot teachers (both of which, let me assure you, I know more than a little about) will not foot the bill, whatever the likes of George Bush tell us.
In the words of the school district, the child was doing so well with the original special education support system established for him they thought he could do fine in a regular classroom. This boy's special ed assistance program WORKED SO WELL that he was actually undiagnosable, so they decided (don't ask me how, because I don't understand this idiotic course of reasoning) that he would do fine WITHOUT the support system - the school admitted this to the media when they said they didn't think he needed special eduation anymore, then iterated that the boy needed a psychological evaluation (flip-flop). Wipe your glasses off and read the article again, please.rmcrobertson said:In other words, you have no solid grounds on which to base your claim that the school is at fault here, just as I would have to solid grounds on which to conclude that the kid and family are.
JPR said:Oh dear! I feel compelled to reply at the risk of angering everyone.
First, I extend my deep admiration and respect to shesulsa. Anyone dealing with such a challenge in a childĀs life deserves respect and (from my belief) prayer. They are sacrificing more and showing more unconditional love than most of us ever will.
Second, our ĀdiscussionĀ points out the true problem to me. We are discussing who is right and wrong as if it is a dichotomy. When to me, at this point, every adult is wrong. Why? Because the needs of the children are not being met! In my first post I simply put on my Āschool board hatĀ to give a perspective from that angle. It isnĀt the final answer, it is simply where prudence demands me to start.
When facing such an issue as this I like to look at needs instead of current actions, because we all mis-act at times. So try this for a needs assessment (not and exhaustive one mind you, but just a quick attempt to hit some high important needs):
1. The child in question (Jan) needs deeply to learn to deal with his challenges. He needs to be with and interact with other children in a positive way. He doesnĀt need to be isolated, for if you isolate him as a child how will he ever function as an adult.
2. The children on the playground need Jan so that they can learn to appreciate / value different people. They will also learn a lot of other useful lessons including; compassion, patients, social skills in dealing with difficult people, and sharing.
3. JanĀs parents need help with their child so that he will learn to deal with his challenge. To do this they need to work better with the system. Now before you stone me, I do understand how difficult that can be. I work for the federal government and have to endure all measure of asinine things almost daily. It is enough to drive you mad, and would be even more infuriating if you were trying to deal with the needs of your child. Working better with the system isnĀt, by the way, caving in either. You have to hold out for what you require, but be flexible and creative in getting there. Easy to say, hard to do.
4. The other childrenĀs parents need to be guaranteed that their children are safe (a great myth here is that anyone can truly guarantee safety to anyone) and that there are processes / procedures in place to make this work.
5. The teachers need to be trained and supported (by the school, other childrenĀs parents, and JanĀs parents). Nothing is more frightening than to be in charge of a situation for which you have not been trained and where you know that everyone is going to line up to blame you for what ever just went wrong.
6. The administration also has needs. They need to understand the cost and liability impact of the situation. They also need to understand the goal of the situation.
7. But on top of all of this, each person / group needs to spend a whole lot more time trying to understand the needs of everyone else and working toward a solution that meets or exceeds all of those needs. If you focus on the need more than the method (how the need is met), you will succeed.
In the end, every adult needs to stop acting out, and focus on a way to make this work for the best of the children. Assigning blame and drawing antagonistic lines doesnĀt really help Jan.
Solving problems this way isnĀt a fun process. It is difficult, tedious, maddening, stressful work, but it is possible. The results are beautiful. I know, I have been a part of it.
JPR