The issue with you, Tez, is you really do personalize these discussions on the Study too frequently. When I say 'we' I don't necessarily mean YOU. Can you please get over this? It would make discussions in the Study a lot more harmonious as this is behavior you display with anyone you disagree with. Trust me, when I mean YOU, I will say so.
You're a good person and I generally like your posts, but please stop taking everything you read on the internet so personally.
Onto the meat of what you've said... I don't know what to tell you if you don't think that western culture in general is much more cognizant of the crimes committed by Nazi Germany than those in Red China or the Soviet Union. That's readily apparent by the number of movies covering Nazi Germany versus the others. And when people online want to call each some inflammatory, "nazi" seems to be the word of choice over Stalinist or Maoist. Your own circle might recognize the enormity of what Stalin and Mao did. However, I am making the point that not all do. Similar to Napoleon. Lots of people actually admire Napoleon, even if you do not personally. I hope I don't have to pull up citations to prove this for you...
As for Napoleon being a product of his times... well, it's not much of an argument when we are talking about lives are we? Else we could justify slavery and suppression of women along with other ills as also being a part of their times. Maybe global terrorism is just a part of our times now, no?