I'm aware of the fact that it's not the weapons fault. Far to often people blame the weapon and not the person holding the weapon but that's a whole other subject.
Okay… it read earlier as you were suggesting that the wrap would solve the problem, though…
Since I come from a Chinese martial arts background their are multiple chinese weapons that are gripped but let's face it most Chinese training weapons that are on the market are made pretty poorly. Due to this I would have to modify my training weapons by replacing the grips since those were usually poorly wrapped. The weapons that I have personally wrapped have all been CMA weapons that consist of daggers, broad swords, gims and a rattan stick that our school recommended us wrapping with a grip.
P.S. the grips are staying on them.
If that's the way it's done there, fine. I was going on Japanese weapons, as that's the topic of the thread.
I will refrain from wrapping the boken since the aikido community doesn't wrap their bokens.
Good.
As far as the coating goes I'll being applying a thin coat of walnut oil to my boken as suggested by some of the helpful feedback that was posted which was welcomed feedback.
Good. Personally, I use a linseed blend, but as said, most oils of the kind are fine. I will say that the only reason I didn't add too much to that, and focused on other aspects of the posts, is that others had already answered well enough with the same advice (or, at least, similar enough) that I would give.
Now about finding a new sensei. Thankfully there's no need for me to do that since I've found one thats more then qualified and teaches an applicable art in a positive training environment.
You've missed the point I was making, which is fine. I'll clarify in a bit… but I will say first that I didn't honestly expect it to be the case that you would genuinely need a new instructor…
I will always be my biggest critic in what ever art I study simply because I put in more hours of personal training outside the dojo then in it due to scheduling issues.
Yeah… that makes you dedicated, but not your biggest critic.
This allows me to work on the corrections that my sensei (or past sifu) has given me as well allowing me to come up with questions about my personal training that I can then ask my sensei while at the dojo.
Sure.
All I have to say is being my own biggest critic dosent take away from my Sensei's qualifications of being an instructor and dosent mean I think I have a greater understanding of the art then what I really do since I know I'm a beginner in this art.
So here's where we get to it… a critic looks for flaws. You may train at home more than at the dojo… but your instructor can see your flaws better than you can. To that end, your instructor should always be a bigger critic of you than you can ever be yourself. If they aren't, then there'll be little they can teach you. Now, it's important to remember that a critic isn't necessarily presenting things negatively… it can be quite positive… but, until you gain the same eyes as your instructor, the same level of understanding as they have, the same grasp of the art as they have, you are not your biggest critic. Take that as a positive… it's the way it is meant to be… the way it's meant to be.
Or, as is often the case, you know how something is to be done - you've seen it done correctly, you may even have done it correctly a time or two yourself - but it just hasn't "clicked" and you're still not consistently performing the thing the way you KNOW it should be done. This is near universal, and a normal part of learning. But many people will criticize themselves for not progressing at the rate THEY think they should progress, even though their instructor is completely happy with their progress.
These people can be described as being their own worst critic. There are several students like this at our school, including my own darling wife.
I don't really think they need a new instructor.
Nor do I. What I am advocating is a more realistic appraisal of what it is to be a critic. I will also say that I haven't been addressing the idea of being your own "worst" critic (hardest on yourself for your development, skill, and progress), but on Doppelganger's own words of "biggest critic". If he wanted to say he's his own worst critic, I'd say to lighten up, but wouldn't argue his perspective. "Biggest critic", on the other hand, is a different idea.