Chris Parker
Grandmaster
Now this has some good lessons.
Yep. The trick is to not be a soft target, but at the same time, don't present a challenge, as drunken egos tend to want to take such things up, whether you intended them or not.
Yep, they were basically boxing you in. In your defence, though, that can happen incredibly fast, especially when your mind is taken up with the front guy yelling, shoving etc. So while you can say all that now, with the clear mind free of adrenaline and the benefit of hindsight, it may not really have been as much of an option as you feel.
Ah. Close, but no. Guy #1 was a distraction. You should have taken out the one starting to punch first, then the next most dangerous (hint: it's not the guy in front), then gotten distance. Trying to take out all three won't work, and going all out on just one leaves you open to the friends swarming in on you.
And this is the swarming that I was mentioning. A very scary place to be, my friend. And that is something I know from both training and experience.
You have your targets out of order, but other than that, yeah. Lessons learnt well, albeit in a rather harsh way. Glad someone was there to help you out.
I got beat up by three guys once. I know what I did wrong.
In my case, I was watching a drunken idiot performing 'kick boxing' in public at a party. I attracted his attention. Mistake 1: don't bad stare drunken idiots.
Yep. The trick is to not be a soft target, but at the same time, don't present a challenge, as drunken egos tend to want to take such things up, whether you intended them or not.
He then approached me with two of his friends, who flanked me on either side while he approached head on. Mistake 2: don't let that happen. Move.
Yep, they were basically boxing you in. In your defence, though, that can happen incredibly fast, especially when your mind is taken up with the front guy yelling, shoving etc. So while you can say all that now, with the clear mind free of adrenaline and the benefit of hindsight, it may not really have been as much of an option as you feel.
He then did the 'chest bump' angry-talk thing in my face; I kept his buddy to my right in my peripheral vision and when he drew back to sucker punch me, I moved into attack position and chased him back, but did not hit him. Mistake 3: I should have gone all out on guy #1 as soon as he approached (or run away, whichever) and failing that, attacked sucker-punch guy on the right instead of threatening to hit him.
Ah. Close, but no. Guy #1 was a distraction. You should have taken out the one starting to punch first, then the next most dangerous (hint: it's not the guy in front), then gotten distance. Trying to take out all three won't work, and going all out on just one leaves you open to the friends swarming in on you.
Then his buddy on the left, who was now behind me, hooked his arm around my neck and pulled me to the ground. An old-fashioned ***-whipping commenced, with me as the recipient. I was nearly unconscious when some huge stranger came out of the crowd that had gathered around us and literally pulled me out of it by my armpits, scooping me up, backing away, and threatening anyone to try to stop him (no one did). I might have died if not for him. Mistake 4: Everything, basically.
And this is the swarming that I was mentioning. A very scary place to be, my friend. And that is something I know from both training and experience.
I had no business being where I was. Ignoring that for the moment, I should have moved the moment I realized his buddies were flanking me. Failing that, I should have attacked out straight up the front, and failing that, to the guy on the right who tried to sucker punch me. I should have gone all-in, held nothing back, and done my best to inflict maximum damage - or run away.
This guy? As others said. He should have gotten out of the corner, and when it became clear he was about to get hit, attack.
You might still lose. If you stand there, you will lose. That's the way it goes.
You have your targets out of order, but other than that, yeah. Lessons learnt well, albeit in a rather harsh way. Glad someone was there to help you out.