Thank you for the responses.
I am hoping to teach Hwa Rang Do eventually. Within the art, there is hard linear kicking and punching as well as soft circular movements within the various kicking, blocking and techniques. Some are straight forward and have hard angles while others are subtle and have large circular motions that eventually become smaller spirals.
I have done some teaching for different types of people and have had to implement some strategy in my training to compensate for bigger stronger people and also for smaller less dominant types. Within their training, I have had to be very patient and easy while still pushing them to their limits and keeping them wanting to come back for more.
I guess my question would be for the teachers out there. What do you do within your training that works for the long haul. How do you "make" a martial artist that is the real thing and not just someone who tries to learn a bit but keeps coming back without practicing on their own? What works? I mean, it doesn't really matter what style one is teaching, there are drills and movements and kicks and punches and techniques and forms in many different arts, but how do you teach someone to understand both the hard and soft elements of the art?
I am just looking for individual feedback from anyone willing to put themselves out there.
For example, my most difficult challenge was when I was training my wife. I am her husband and she will be hard put to call me Sir. But she respects me as a MA and wants to learn. So at first, I just went about our classes as I would want to be taught, but she wasn't having that, it wasn't fun and she felt like I was speaking to her in a condescending manner. we talked back and forth after training and she gave me feedback on how she felt she could learn better and each class was different until she and I had come to an agreement. She was more of the type that would like to see and hear the explanation and then do it until she was confident enough to do it without forgetting the moves, then I could help her along with some tips, but very few at a time so she could implement them. I was okay with that because I try to be a perfectionist as often as I can and it was great to spend time with her. I would then turn the fact that I could only give her a small piece each time and turn that small piece into several different exercises. Slow like tai chi and then as fast as she could over and over just for memory, then the best she could do a few times after that so she would get a good workout.
So I would use the soft style of nurturing and flowing with her needs and then turn it into a hard type style by drilling it over and over in different ways so she would get the most benefit possible.
If anyone has something to say, please chime in.
Thank you,
Farang - Larry