Hello from Utah everyone, Im a big guy, Im as big as a sumo wrestler 5'9" 390 and real out of shape. I think I might give martial arts a go at it to help cut weight before I die from being out of shape... I've never gained any significant rank in any martial art but have had minimal exposure to a couple arts and I've had zero fights. The zero fights thing is probably due to how I have reacted on a base level in the past. I'm talking about fight, flight, freeze or cover up. These to me are the foundation of what a man will do in an extreme situation or any combo thereof and faced with overwhelming fear. I've often opted to run or failing that have actually frozen a couple times on the spot. Im very interested in the full spectrum of /mA's as a whole but its hard for me to choose any specific style. Due to time and money constraints I'll probably want something that i can train in alone most of the time. I'm not sure where to go with that though...Anyhow, glad i found this site hopefully it will aid me in my journey.