In a technological society, it's easy to stay in contact with people... so why do so many people fail to do so? When I was a kid, if you weren't going to be somewhere you were expected to be, or you were going to be late, you called and let someone know; people don't do that as much today, even though it's a lot easier to get in touch with most people than it used to be.
You said "please", "thank you", and "excuse me" as appropriate; this also seems to be going the way of the dodo.
You addressed others - especially those older than yourself - with respect; I remember, when I turned about 20, being told by a family friend we'd known since I was 6, to call her by her first name - and I couldn't make myself do it; it seemed rude, since she was my parents' age.
There are countless other examples of courtesy that used to happen that no longer occur. So often, people claim that the reason they behave that way is "it's outdated" or "I don't have the time". Lazarus Long, a character of Robert Heinlein's, stated
When did this sentiment become outdated? What is the real reason why courtesy is no longer considered important by so many people?
You said "please", "thank you", and "excuse me" as appropriate; this also seems to be going the way of the dodo.
You addressed others - especially those older than yourself - with respect; I remember, when I turned about 20, being told by a family friend we'd known since I was 6, to call her by her first name - and I couldn't make myself do it; it seemed rude, since she was my parents' age.
There are countless other examples of courtesy that used to happen that no longer occur. So often, people claim that the reason they behave that way is "it's outdated" or "I don't have the time". Lazarus Long, a character of Robert Heinlein's, stated
Honorifics and formal politeness provide lubrication where people rub together. Often the very young, the untraveled, the naive, the unsophisticated deplore these formalities as "empty," "meaningless," or "dishonest," and scorn to use them. No matter how "pure" their motives, they thereby throw sand into machinery that does not work too well at best.
When did this sentiment become outdated? What is the real reason why courtesy is no longer considered important by so many people?